03 Jun
Jumping Through Hoops: Will That Help You Know How to Get Girls in Bed?
Posted in on 03.06.11
When you go to apply what you know about how to get girls in bed, you are going to realize that women are going to throw out several hoops when you first approach them. You will have the choice of whether or not to jump through them. This article will examine the usefulness of jumping through the hoops that women throw out. You might just learn that you don't have to do what they say to get them into bed. You must apply your own techniques and knowledge on how to get girls in bed.
One of the most popular hoops a girl will throw out to guys who hit on her will be the "buy me a drink" hoop. This is her attempt to qualify you and see if you meet her standards. At this point, you have the choice. You can jump through her hoop and buy her a drink; however, this usually transfers the balance of power in the interaction to her. If you want to keep the power on your side, you probably should not jump through her hoop.
So, if you decide you do not want to jump through her hoop, you have a couple of options. The first option is to simply ignore her request. This is a very underrated and underused tactic. Simply keep the conversation flowing about other things, and if she keeps bringing the subject up, you can find a way to gracefully make an exit. If she doesn't bring it up again, then you have maintained the power in the relationship by not giving her a qualification.
The other option you have is to throw out a hoop of your own. So, she asks you to buy her a drink but you tell her that you don't buy people you don't know drinks. Also tell her that you'd be happy to get the next round if she buys the first one. If she jumps through your hoop and buys you a drink, then you have successfully received compliance from her because she responded to your request. This keeps the power on your side.
As you begin to use what you know about how to get girls in bed, you will have to navigate the girls' responses and tactics as well. By anticipating their moves and successfully navigating them, you will be well on your way to getting what you ultimately want.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women. For more information go to http://www.seductionroadmap.com